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What the season truly brings

December 9, 2011

For me, this time of year is the most special.  As a therapist, I have seen how our hearts are softer and I have had the pleasure and joy of seeing many a relationship heal.  I cannot begin to share with you how special these moments are for me as I know they are for all involved.  It truly is a magical thing.
 
Too many of us have people in our lives that, for whatever reason, we still keep at arm’s length.  Why?  Because they have hurt us in some way I believe.  I know there may be someone in your life that harmed you extensively and irrevocably.  Ok.  Yet there may also be others that you had a falling-out with and yet, as you may think about it, wonder why the result of ending that relationship even came to be — meaning that we come to the conclusion that the issue may not such a big deal anymore.
 
I say to you that it does not have to remain that way.  Don’t let pride get in the way.  Reach out to that person.  Acknowledge and take responsibility for any of your actions that have effected the relationship. I can imagine you may still feel hurt and even hesitant about reaching out.  Among other things, this will lighten your emotional load.  This is also how we can move forward in life and I want that for you.  Be true to yourself and grow as a person.  Good luck and Happy Holidays!!

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